4 Signs Your Spouse is Having an Affair

Entering into a monogamous marriage or a committed relationship is usually done with the expectation of trust and love. Nobody anticipates being betrayed by the person they trust and love the most. 

According to the American Psychological Association (APA), infidelity is a leading factor in up to 40% of divorces. Although many other issues may exist before an affair occurs, marriages that have crossed that line often face significant challenges in recovering. For many couples, an affair, whether by one spouse or the other, can be the ultimate breaking point. When the faithful partner is blindsided by infidelity, it can be an extremely painful experience. 

Here are some signs that can help you identify a cheating spouse.

Protected or Secretive Tech Habits

In today’s world, most Americans rely on multiple tech devices such as laptops, tablets, and smartphones for work, education, socialization, and entertainment. These devices have become even more integral due to the current state of the world. However, the increased use of technology has made it easier for individuals to cheat and for partners to catch them. 

A study by YouGov Omnibus revealed that 7% of adults using dating apps did so to cheat on their partners, and 17% were on dating websites in 2019 for the same reason. This number has likely increased during the pandemic. Pay close attention to your partner’s tech habits.

Unusual or Unexplained Expenses

Most couples either share their household expenses or have a general understanding of their weekly or monthly spending. It can be challenging to conceal the financial evidence of an affair. Don’t deceive yourself; cheating comes at a significant cost. 

According to a study, an average affair lasting six months can cost more than $2,660 in expenses like dates, gifts, dinners, and hotel rooms. You may notice that your partner has been spending money in an unusual or unaccounted-for manner.

Changes in the Relationship Due to Emotional or Sexual Intimacy

The initial honeymoon stage of a relationship can last anywhere from a few weeks to a couple of years. Most committed relationships eventually stabilize, leading to stronger emotional bonds and a more secure partnership. 

When your partner suddenly withdraws and reduces or eliminates emotional or sexual intimacy, it could be a sign that their needs are being met elsewhere. Significant or sudden changes in sexual behavior can also be indicators. Many people perceive a lack of sexual activity as a potential sign of infidelity. The unfaithful partner may also exhibit increased interest in sex to cover up their tracks.

Sudden Mood Swings, Avoidance, or Deflection

Infidelity can be a single decision that ends a marriage. Your partner is likely aware of this and may go to great lengths to conceal the affair. This stress can lead to avoidance, deflection, or even defensive responses when confronted with relationship issues or accusations. If you believe your partner is cheating and are ready to address the problem, it may be time to have an open conversation.

Identifying and addressing infidelity in a relationship is undoubtedly challenging. It’s essential to approach the situation with sensitivity and a desire for open communication when you suspect your partner may be cheating.

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